How do things change? Things in nature change by the simple, yet complex, cycle of life... But, what about human change? Emotional change? Change by force? Change by choice? Change by luck? Change through prayer?
This could go on and on forever.
In my fairytale world, I would like to think that little creatures create change. Little tears of love, pouring down the cheeks of a precious "Hada," (the "H" is silent) Causing the most unusual fungi to grow... Dances nurturing life... It is a sweet thought, if not silly...(painting below is in le shoppe)
But what about "real world," chaotic, unwanted or even yet, unexpected change?? IS this really me? These wrinkles? Do I really need industiral strength knickers?? Will my friends really think I look smarter??? WHAT???? Please, DO NOT ask me if I have been dieting. (photo from corsetiere.com)
And, what about a glance in the mirror while getting into the shower.. It might lead you to ask, "Is that me or is that the woman I just saw in my national geographic magazine?" You know, the one who has not worn a brassiere, well, um, ever??? Or, have we aged every so gracefully? Those women who grow more beautiful with age? Perhaps, even having attained the body of our dreams (ya right), but maybe? (AshleyG has a really good tip about Brassiere's)
Where on earth am I going with all of this? Okay Okay, I am a cake, of the nutty kind. But, you are too for meeting me here like this... Although, I thank you profously for doing so. (giggling) Hey, that looks really good! (photo below & Recipe Included from) If you make it, send me some.

Back to the point. I am entering that sensitive zone of, yes, accessories. Don't act like you think this is silly. I know you have been wearing those favorite shoes of yours "forever." I know, you get a new pair, wear them for a day or so, and revert to the fave, more comfy pair. I also know, you buy a new hand-bag, sometimes for lots of bucks, and then revert to the old one... C'mon, who are you trying to kid? You know how I know?
Because, I have been reverting back to this bag for 5 years. You know, my baby, the one that weighs a ton? Remember it here? And, I have 5 pairs of my favorite shoes, which I wear every day. I don't mean 5 pairs in different colors! I mean 5 pairs of the exact same color.
Or, you might find me in the frilly shoes...
But usually it is the same pair, and the same bag. You know what I think about wearing the same bag and the same shoes everyday? I think it is MARVELOUS! I think we should do what we want. Hey, if I can't part with my bag, who cares???
The truth is. Change happens everyday. And, I am not one who likes huge change, or even little change, at all really. I am a delighted girl, in my little world. I do what I want, when I want. I wear what I want. I hardly ever follow clothes trends. Sometimes they creep up on me. But, for the most part, I like what I like. And I think that, that is the key. Be you, do what you want to do...
I mean, things are going to change even when we don't want them to. Some people are really hung up on age and aging. It is a huge product of our society. But, I didn't even notice that I turned 31. I have no concept of age. I love who I love, I am friends with those that my soul is drawn to. I know girls who turn 17 and look 45 to me. I also know women who are 73 and exude 25.
I am who I am, I have to be happy now. There is no, "well, when I get married, this will change..or If I do this, the following will change." No way. The time to embrace yourself, with all your imperfections, with all your quirks is now. If you can embrace who you are, you can live (as in frolick and play). And, live happily. Trust me, it is not easy. I battle that every day. But, we have to try. The future, when our lives will be better might not happen. We have to love this time, this moment, this place...
The truth is, I don't look at the past like "oh, how I wish that time would come back." I look at it like, "Wow, it was great, and I am glad I learned so much from all the insanity." I also realize, I don't tan like I did at 18. I have not tanned in 6 years. I avoid the sun, for the most part. I don't have peaches n' cream skin like I did in my 20's, nor do I have those wrinkle free eyes. But, I don't care or wish it back. Is that weird? I just shrug my shoulders and think, that was nice, what's next... I just don't have time to dwell in the past. I want to be at peace with it all. Don't you?
So, darn it! If you want to wear your hair the same way you did in 1975. Then do it. Why do we have to change those little things that we do not want to? Persuasion???
Temptation?
I have to admit. I did fall for temptation & persuasion. Recently, actually...
In the form of...This pattern...
Yep. I purchased this treasure from AngelDamico. It is perfect summer bohemian. I love it. And, I am sitting podering, how long it might take to transfer my items into it...
Here it is in color.. If you thought you loved the pattern.. The color is unreal!!! See, this is change by choice.

As for change by way of persuasion... I mean, Come on, if a gift like this, comes your way from Marrakech, how ever could you not be persuaded to throw them on and feel a bit, Moroccan? Maryam, I have to take extra huge steps. I almost killed myself twice in these pointy treasures!! heheheh! I love em!!! ps: I am keeping the little baby arm on them...I love that!!!
Sooo, in this long annoying post we learned what things?
A) Don't change if you don't want to & Do what you want (unless, your kids need food, or, you have to pay your bills). For example, if you want to go undercover at night, in the brightly lit grocery store, do so. Do things, Within reason of course. And, don't blame me for anything foolish you do. I am released here, of all responsibility for your actions. You could also, sleep in your favorite shoe pile, undercover...
B) Since there is mass change going on around us, why not be in control of the little changes that you do not want to make? Like wearing your hair the same way you did in 1984? (photo from here)

C) But, more importanly, don't take advice from me... As I am in search of....
Oh, who knows. I have exhausted myself with all this babble....